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Musings Of A Divorcee: Why This Fan Left The Orioles For The Nationals

For some fans, the switch was easy. For others, not so much. Alex Reed details how, when, and why he defected from the Baltimore Orioles to the Washington Nationals.

Jun 3, 2010 - Dear Baltimore Orioles,

"Disloyal."

"Bandwagon jumper. Fairweather fan."

"Traitor. Turncoat. Two-timer."

Call it what you will, but today, after 23 years of marriage, I think it's best we call it quits and split the sheets.

It was a roller-coaster ride, Baltimore.

We had some fun times. I'll never forget Rex Barney's magical "give that fan a contract" call, being elected fan of the game in 1997, or my first taste of Boog's Barbeque a few years later.

And let's not forget how crazy things got against the Mariners at Camden Yards in June of 1993. I popped my MLB brawl cherry that day:

But lately, you and I have drifted apart. I suppose you could say it's been a long time coming, but I had always held out hope that miracles were possible, that one day all the bickering and disappointment would wash from our memories as we marched down happy lane toward a World Series championship.

Alas, the real world is a cold, unforgiving place. I'd like to give you the, "It's not you, it's me," but if brutal honesty is my goal, then let it be said: It's you.

Sure, there are countless third parties you can point blame at: Jeffrey Maier (pictured below), the AL East, Mark Teixeira becoming Judas Iscariot reincarnate, etc.

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But in the end, you have nobody to blame but yourself. For years, you underachieved, you blew saves in the ninth inning, you fired Davey Johnson and then Ray Miller, you didn't make the playoffs, you promised that "this year" would be different, you conned me into believing in you after a hot start, only to crash and burn in the worst way imaginable down the stretch.

I tried, I really did. When the Washington Nationals moved to town five years ago, I remained faithful. I'll admit, I went to a few games - hardly cheating. But I never once cared for them more than I cared for you.

That is until now.

I suppose I reached my breaking point when I read Thomas Boswell's column in this morning's Washington Post. In it, he described the tale of two teams headed in opposite directions.

For the Nats to match their nadir last season at 26-66, they would have to lose their next 39 games. That's hard to believe. But for the O's to get to 26-66 this year, all they have to do is keep playing exactly as they are. That's even harder to fathom.

It occurred to me: why exert all my emotional energy on something that is not making me happy and will not make me happy because it can't make me happy. You, the Orioles, are inevitably doomed for the foreseeable (45 of the next 48 games against teams .500 or better) and unforeseeable (next season and beyond) future. The Rays' success has given us hope, but I've now learned that hope alone can only take us so far.

The Nationals, meanwhile, have combined hope with on-field success, likable players, and a perfect timing. They are peaking when you are at your low point. They are less than one week away from the biggest moment in franchise history; you are less than one week away from firing your fifth manager since your last playoff appearance.

So, Baltimore Orioles, I regret to inform you that I am leaving you for the Washington Nationals. There is no turning back, either - nothing in this world can stand in the way of my new love affair.

Goodbye, Nick Markakis; hello, Ryan Zimmerman. I'll never forget the countless debates I had with friends in the summer of 2008 about who was a better franchise cornerstone. I believe that argument can be safely - and laughably -  put to rest at this point.

Goodbye, Matt Wieters; hello, Bryce Harper. I still wish you the best, Matt, and hope you reach your potential. But there's a new best catching prospect ever, and he will most likely be a part of the Nationals organization before you even hit your fifth home run on the season.

Goodbye, Brian Matusz; hello, Stephen Strasburg. We had some good times, Brian, but I'm with Stephen, now!

And lastly, for kicks: Goodbye, Dave Trembley. You're on the verge of a well-deserved severance package.

Signed,

Alex Reed

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Ha!

I just realized the Orioles were left in the dust with this DC regional site. That’s cold. I’ve been a Bullets/Skins/Caps/Orioles fan my whole life. Some expansion team isn’t going to change that. I think it’s ridiculous to leave the O’s off the DC site! All of my friends and a lot of people around the DC area are still O’s fans. Very cold. As far as you being a sellout? That’s fine. Glad to see you go.

It’s called shaking dead wood off the tree.

And yes, that tree is getting smaller by the day. But I’ll never leave it.

My swag was phenomenal.

by se7en on Jun 7, 2010 3:48 AM EDT reply actions  

No O's!

I was very glad to see the Orioles and Ravens left off of this new DC regional site. It’s a whole different city, people, not just DC’s northernmost suburb. Want to read about the O’s? Great! There are many, many sports blogs that cover Baltimore and the Orioles, and at least a couple w/in the SB Nation network.

(I grew up in the area and steadfastly refused to root for the Orioles growing up—I was from DC, after all, and they were most decidedly NOT—but I understand that for many, some baseball is better than no baseball.)

BTW, welcome to the Nats fanbase!

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 7:53 AM EDT up reply actions  

Tough to be an O's fan, but

the O’s and the Ravens were not “left off” this site. As lead writer on the Ravens at Baltimore Beatdown, we made it perfectly clear we had zero interest in being part of a “DC” region. If this were going to be a “Mid-Atlantic” or “Chesapeake” region, we’d gladly take part. But to take a back seat to the Skins (!) ore ven the Nats, that would not sit well with us Baltimore fans, who certainly would never consider ourselves part of DC.

Thanks, but no thanks, and good luck to everything related to SB Nation-DC Hub!

aka 'Rexx'

by Bruce Raffel on Jun 7, 2010 8:10 AM EDT up reply actions  

Apologies

“Left off” was not the best choice of words. :)

It’s good to hear that at least one Baltimore blog had no interest in being under a DC umbrella. (Much in the same way I was really happy to hear the appreciation in the Orioles fanbase for putting “Baltimore” back on the jerseys.)

Team owners and mass media have long tried to insist that we’re all one big happy metropolitan area. Angelos’s claim over the DC area, the Post’s insistence on having Orioles beat writers, etc. It’s good to see that SB Nation didn’t force any of the Orioles or Ravens blogs under the DC banner. Everybody wins.

Best of luck to you over at Baltimore Beatdown, and here’s hoping we see baltimore.sbnation.com launch soon!

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 8:22 AM EDT up reply actions  

Besides, if someone from Baltimore still wants to experience......

….what it would be like to be a part of this blog, they can just turn on Comcast SportsNet. Why do they still show them in Baltimore, I wish a reincarnation of HTS would created….and MASN isn’t close to a Baltimore regional sportsstation.

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by ravoriobulleterpitals on Jun 7, 2010 2:48 PM EDT up reply actions  

Listen, my friend.

Every Nationals fans is a “traitor” to someone in many ways. If you were a fan of baseball before they came here, you either rooted for someone else or you stewed in anger that baseball had left your hometown. I was from NY and I rooted for the Mets before I moved to DC. I think the truer Nats fans embraced the Nats in 2005 and didn’t go through the type of existential angst that Mr. Reed did but such is life.

Root for your hometown team unless you have a deep attachment to someone else. If you’re MD, especially tied to Frederick, Bowie, or outside of MoCo I can certainly see how O’s are the hometown team. But for us hailing from Northeast and elsewhere in the District can’t say that you can call someone a bandwagon jumper from hooking onto the local team.

Yes, the timing is a bit suspect. But far better for O’s fans to hope that some of this “jumping” will inspire Angelos to go after bigger name free agents and get more aggressive with improving his roster.

Souldrummer stands alone for Miguel Batista. Many want to see Capps save games. Dream big! MOAR RUNZ!!! MOAR BATISTA!!!!

by souldrummer on Jun 12, 2010 9:05 PM EDT up reply actions  

Can't you be a fan of both teams?

I’m just curious why it would need to be an either/or proposition with the Orioles and Nationals. They play in separate leagues, so why not cheer for both? I’m a Blue Jays fan, but when the Nationals were still the Montreal Expos, as a Canadian I cheered for both teams, one in each league.

by jabalong on Jun 7, 2010 8:22 AM EDT reply actions  

speaking as a nats fan…no, you can’t be a fan of both teams. not with the history behind washington’s attempts to acquire a franchise, and peter angelos’ actions to block that move at every turn.

if the writer of the article had been born and raised in baltimore, i might understand feeling like a traitor. but hey, you’re a DC guy and your city finally has its own team. embrace it! welcome!

by Natty Bumppo on Jun 7, 2010 10:10 AM EDT up reply actions  

One can be a Nats & O’s fan in the same way that one can be a Ravens & Redskins fan. It takes a lot of doublethink, but you can pull it off.

I totally, absolutely understand why Ravens fans hate the Redskins. Cooke kept them from getting a team for a number of years, and that hatred is totally valid. The same is true for Nationals fans hating the Orioles. It’s very difficult to root for both.

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 10:30 AM EDT up reply actions  

I have heard that, but I have never seen to support it

How did Jack Kent Cooke keep Baltimore for getting a team? I’ve looked it up and found nothing supporting the argument. I would be very curious to see it.

As for Alex, you are being a good Washingtonian. This a great post to get the ball rolling.

Blogging about D.C. Baseball since April '04. Penn State alum. Also partial to the Washington Capitals, New York Yankees and Yale football.

by WFY on Jun 7, 2010 6:29 PM EDT up reply actions  

what a ridiculous thing to say

Of course you can be a fan of both teams.

I grew up in Baltimore and am dyed-in-the-wool Redskins all the way (the Colts left town the year I started watching football). Abandoning a team because of an irritating owner is the worst kind of bandwagon jumping. What sports fan hasn’t had to live through an ownership crisis? Hello, DAN SNYDER? You take those lumps like you take anything else.

The Orioles have a proud history in baltimore that pre-dates Peter Angelos’ ownership of the team by 40 years. And there is no other owner who would not have tried to block DC’s acquisition of a team, either.

Incidentally, while I disagree with Angelos’ trying to block the team, it’s clear that DC doesn’t care so much about baseball. Nationals attendance has been atrocious this year, despite their being competitive in their division. That place is sure going to be quiet when they fall back to earth.

And Alex Reed? Good riddance.

"I put a pepper rub on the scallops so you have a little contrast. You have sweetness from the coconut oil and little acidity from the splash of lemon." – Luke Scott

by zknower on Jun 7, 2010 11:33 AM EDT up reply actions  

And Alex Reed? Good riddance.

I feel better about being an O’s fan today than I did yesterday. One less bandwagoner on the train. I assume 20 years from now when the Nats are mired in a streak of losing seasons Alex will become a Yankees fan.

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by Carl Putnam on Jun 7, 2010 11:46 AM EDT up reply actions  

I don't think it's gonna take 20 years for that to happen.

More like 4 or 5.

"I put a pepper rub on the scallops so you have a little contrast. You have sweetness from the coconut oil and little acidity from the splash of lemon." – Luke Scott

by zknower on Jun 7, 2010 1:06 PM EDT up reply actions  

give it a couple of weeks

he still hasn’t looked at their record.
hint: it’s below .500…shocker right?

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by danielreese05 on Jun 7, 2010 1:07 PM EDT up reply actions  

They play 6 games against one another in the Beltway series.

You gotta pick one then.

Souldrummer stands alone for Miguel Batista. Many want to see Capps save games. Dream big! MOAR RUNZ!!! MOAR BATISTA!!!!

by souldrummer on Jun 12, 2010 9:06 PM EDT up reply actions  

Hope You Never Come Back

I just dont want to see you back like the so-called Caps fans are doing now. In order to be a true sports fan you stick with your teams, no matter what, through thick and thin. I have lived in the DC area all my life and have been an O’s fan from day one. I will root for the Nationals, due to their location, but will never consider them my team. The question I have to ask you is if the Nats are horrendous in 20 years and the O’s win a couple of championships in a row (I know I am dreaming but seriously think if it happended) whould you silently come back to the O’s side and state you’ve been a fan for life or would you post another ridiculous story of how you are a bandwagon fan?

by Trailblaza05 on Jun 7, 2010 12:36 PM EDT reply actions  

The O’s have one a World Series title during my lifetime, and I didn’t think about rooting for them for a second.

If the situations were reversed (Baltimore has no team for 30+ years, suddenly gets one, fans jump ship to the new Bawmer franchise) I wouldn’t begrudge their departure at all. Not really sure where all this antagonism is coming from, other than it’s the Internet.

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 1:10 PM EDT up reply actions  

Won, not one.

Me fail English.

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 1:11 PM EDT up reply actions  

clearly it's a case of different strokes for different folks.

i can’t stand bandwagoners and being the same division with NY and boston will do that to you. loyalty is everything when it comes to being a fan, so this guy is violating rule number one for a lot of us.

"Being an Orioles fan is like having very painful genital warts."
"harden the fuck up mike gonzalez."
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by danielreese05 on Jun 7, 2010 1:13 PM EDT up reply actions  

See, I don’t look at it as jumping on or off a bandwagon. He’s from DC. He’s now going to root for the DC team. Here I thought Baltimore was the easier-going city than DC? :D

(…and as a long-time DC resident and a Nats fan from day 1, the notion that we even HAVE a bandwagon one could jump on is both hilarious and heartening.)

by idiosynch on Jun 7, 2010 3:25 PM EDT up reply actions  

it is 100% jumping on a bandwagon...

if the author decided to become a Nats fan from Day One, like you did, there is nothing wrong with that. But, instead, he waited until the Nats were in 1st place (briefly at least) in their division to jump ship. Sorry…thats just lame.

by brek on Jun 8, 2010 1:36 PM EDT up reply actions  

The Nationals are in the bottom third of the league’s overall standings (20th out of 30 teams). What bandwagon?

by Alex Reed on Jun 13, 2010 4:34 PM EDT up reply actions  

ahahahaha
and by the way, you should probably know who your beloved franchise’s new cornerstone is, harper’s an outfielder

Ahahaha. Touché. Mr. Reed, you don’t really follow the Natinals that closely, do you?

"I put a pepper rub on the scallops so you have a little contrast. You have sweetness from the coconut oil and little acidity from the splash of lemon." – Luke Scott

by zknower on Jun 7, 2010 1:10 PM EDT up reply actions  

yup

wieters, still the best catching prospect ever.

"Being an Orioles fan is like having very painful genital warts."
"harden the fuck up mike gonzalez."
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by danielreese05 on Jun 7, 2010 1:14 PM EDT up reply actions  

Quick Defense

I find it somewhat difficult to label this as “bandwagon jumping” since the Nationals aren’t really lighting the league on fire, but I understand the association because of the timing of my defection (right before Harper/Strasmas).

The truth is, since the Nationals moved to DC I have tried very hard to get emotionally invested but could never do it. The only reason I rooted for the Orioles through thick and thin for my entire life was because there was no DC team. This year, it just felt wrong for whatever reason. My personal ties to members of the Nationals organization doesn’t hurt either, but I won’t elaborate on that.

I still wish for the O’s to do well, and the assumption that I would ever root for the Yankees or Red Sox disgusts me, but in the hypothetical world 324 years from now when the Nats and O’s finally off in the World Series, my allegiance will be with Washington. I’m sorry I ruined everyone’s life.

by Alex Reed on Jun 7, 2010 2:06 PM EDT reply actions  

The only reason I rooted for the Orioles through thick and thin for my entire life was because there was no DC team.

Then root for both.

The only reason I rooted for the Redskins through thick and thin my entire life was because Baltimore didn’t have a football team when I was growing up. Now they have one, but I can’t turn my back on 12 years of fandom. So I root for the ravens in the AFC, but keep the Redskins as #1 in my heart. Because if you can walk away that easily, you were never a fan in the first place.

Also, you contradict yourself in your own post. This has nothing to do with the Natinals appearing on the scene, and everything to do with the Orioles’ performance:

….I’d like to give you the, “It’s not you, it’s me,” but if brutal honesty is my goal, then let it be said: It’s you.

….But in the end, you have nobody to blame but yourself. For years, you underachieved, you blew saves in the ninth inning, you fired Davey Johnson and then Ray Miller, you didn’t make the playoffs, you promised that “this year” would be different, you conned me into believing in you after a hot start, only to crash and burn in the worst way imaginable down the stretch….

You, the Orioles, are inevitably doomed for the foreseeable (45 of the next 48 games against teams .500 or better) and unforeseeable (next season and beyond) future. …. The Nationals, meanwhile, have combined hope with on-field success, likable players, and a perfect timing. They are peaking when you are at your low point.

Is that your definition of rooting through “thick and thin”?

Just admit it. You’re a bandwagoner. Embrace it. Own it. ‘Cause this pseudo-rationalizing you’re doing is defensive and disingenuous.

"I put a pepper rub on the scallops so you have a little contrast. You have sweetness from the coconut oil and little acidity from the splash of lemon." – Luke Scott

by zknower on Jun 7, 2010 5:17 PM EDT up reply actions  

I don’t really see where I contradicted myself, but everyone is entitled to their opinion. I think I made it – or at least tried to make it – pretty clear that my reasons for defecting were both an overall disenchantment with the Orioles as well as my budding love for the Nationals. I’d liken this to no longer being in love with a partner I’ve been in a long distance relationship with, and leaving her for my next-door neighbor, who I’ve had feelings for for quite some time.

If leaving a terrible team for a slightly less terrible team (without a winning history) qualifies me as a bandwagon jumper, then yes, I suppose I embrace that. But I’m not sure the Nationals have a bandwagon, even on the eve of Strasmas.

by Alex Reed on Jun 7, 2010 8:37 PM EDT up reply actions  

While I admire your attempt to stick with the O's in the first place...

…it’s only right that you root for the team from the city you grew up and live in. Your reasoning should just be that and not that the “Nats are peaking” Hope you can handle another disappointment.

While it took me a few years to ween myself off the Steelers & Bills (after the Colts left/dad from pitt) I wanted to root for Baltimore’s team b/c it’s where I was born and raised. I feel sad today for people from Baltimore who stick with a team they picked simply because the Colts were gone. The majority would have been Colts fans, not Chiefs, 49er’s or Redskins fans. I’m likewise a big Wizards fan, but I know if Baltimore ever got a team, I would root for Baltimore’s team first and secondly for the Wiz until those players I know were gone.

When you have to shoot, shoot. Don't talk - Tuco

by ravoriobulleterpitals on Jun 7, 2010 2:33 PM EDT reply actions  

Is this a joke?

The Orioles are one year away from contending.
put my word down for it, and no i am not just being a typical o’s fan.
We need one power first baseman to protect our young guys from all the weight of the pressure. We need one more starting pitcher (to also take some of the weight off the young guys). And we just need one guy who can stay in the closer position for more than 2 games.
3 players = easy contention

by Gilbert's Glock on Jun 10, 2010 12:11 AM EDT reply actions  

Angelos?

Well, I’m kind of dense, but I’m still not sure of exactly what actions Angelos took to keep a team out of Washington. When asked, he said he would prefer that no team was placed there. He made the imfamous comments about Washington not being a baseball town, and he swung a deal for the TV rights, which so far have been a big loser for him . The Nationals fans venom is best saved for Bud Selig, Jerry Reinsdorf, and the other insider owners who selected Miami, Tampa, Denver, and Phoenix over DC for new franchises in the ‘90s. Angelos had nothing to do with those decisions. He only bought the team in 1993 and was on the outs with most of his fellow owners after the 1994 strike for his refusal to consider hiring scab replacement players. Yeah, he threatened to sue, but so what. Selig and his cronies were the decision makers, not Angelos. I’m no Angelos fan, but I am an O’s fan, so I don’t care for all of the venom sent the O’s way from Nats fans.

by hotplate on Jun 12, 2010 10:12 AM EDT reply actions  

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